Nowadays, more and more girls prefer attractive older men, and more and more men like mature women who are older than themselves. Let’s talk about the mature women’ view of love before we go to their traits that men will admire:
Mature Women’s View of Love
1. Love on the premise of marriage
When a woman is mature, especially her view of love is mature, she will begin to love for the purpose of marrying. She will be in a responsible mood to love, and will be more rational to view love, which is respect for both sides. Convey this feeling to him, make him understand what you think, and make him realize that he should be serious about your love, which is the mature attitude of adults to love and marriage.
2. No longer believe in ‘forever’
Although the eternal love will certainly exist, only after the precipitation, after years of baptism this love will become affection to each other. When you are young, vigorous and reckless, with the maturity of the mind gradually transformed into plain stability, the best thing is to always let life continue to go smoothly at this time. Love cannot always be in the stage of love, when you are mature, love will become a kind of the simplest interdependence.
3. Solve problems rationally and calmly, try not to quarrel
Quarrel is a double-edged sword, it will hurt feelings, but it can also deepen the fetters between two people. If you can think carefully before you quarrel, avoid unnecessary words, avoid positive conflicts, you will leave a step for each other. You know, when you say something in a fight, you can’t make it up for a long time. Therefore, you should stay calm and rational, and make each other more sincere.
4. No longer cry because of troubles in love
In the process of growing up, women must have shed a lot of tears, especially in front of love. It’s not a bad thing to hurt yourself in love, to make your heart ache, and then you can be immune. When you have felt restless and lonely, you should realize that happiness is in your own hand. When you can clear all, the feminine charm will become more and more powerful.
5. His appearance is no longer so important
When mature women choose their partner, his heart is more important than his appearance. Mature women will pay more attention to his knowledge, characters than his appearance. Once maiden you may be young and anthomaniac. However, you must realize that life is real, and the appearance is just a pair of skins when you are mature.
6. You won’t be uneasy even if he does not contact you.
Teenage love always depends on each other. If he did not contact you, you will become uneasy, even will continue to turn number, constantly check the phone. You will feel lost if there is no message. Women should have their own independent living space; even if he did not contact you, you can also be happy during this period. Keep the right distance; carry out the half sugar doctrine, although there is no vigor of the past, but your life will be more peaceful, love will also be long lasting.
Mature Women’s Traits That Men Will Admire
With the improvement of living standards, people pay more attention to the scientific diet, health and nutrition. Therefore, if mature women pay attention to body care, treat themselves well, they will absolutely not reduce to the point of ‘old age’. They know how to choose the most suitable cosmetics, how to stick to a sport to keep slim, and how to dress properly according to the occasion…… Although mature women are far away from the word ‘pure’, their whole body exudes strong mature flavor.
Young girls care about dressing and star gossip. While young men are almost the opposite, they pay more attention career, life, society and so on. If the lovers have no common topic to share, men may gradually become reluctant to talk to you. In the course of time, the hearts of the two people will be farther away. And this time the men will be more willing to communicate with mature women.
Some mature women are well educated and struggling women. When they are 40 years old, they may have a stable financial situation or small business. After years of hard work in the workplace, a naive girl has been forged into a capable woman. Economic independence brought them the independent thought and action. Maybe they do not have luxury cars and homes, but they have personality dignity. For the future, they have a clear plan.
4. Sexual life
A beautiful woman will not lack the nourishment of sexual love. When women are over 40 years old, they know how to win and enjoy the fun. They know the skills to please themselves and others.
Mature women can even be men’s friends. They can be very competent and richer. Men can learn a lot from mature women. When facing with the choice, they are more timely care, with their own life experience to provide useful suggestions to help men solve difficulties.
6. Sense of security
Men who are dating mature women have more sense of security. Men have more or less Oedipus complex, and mature women can give them the same care like mother. Men also need a warm harbor, whenever they encounter difficulties or bad things; mature women can give cares and help like their mom.