Relationships especially in which romantic love is involved are not easy. They have their own ups and downs. There are times when you get in a fight with your partner. During other times, you may feel as if your relationship is going to end soon. Well, if you are going through a difficult time in your relationship, there are some things you can do to sustain your relation with a happy note. Although there are not strict rules for this, there are certain guidelines you can follow to make you love relationship a happy one.
- Forget About Breakup: Many people will advise you to drift apart from your partner. But remember, breakup is not the solution to solve the problems that crop up in a relationship. It is in fact, the biggest mistake one could ever make. The reason for increasing divorce rates in India can be attributed to those people who think that separation is the only solution to every problem in a relationship. So, never think of separation unless you have the case where it is obvious to opt for divorce.
- Support your Partner: Never make your lover feel unsupported by you. There will be times where your opinions and ideas will be different from that of your partner, but remember not to enter into argument during such times. Instead, support your partner. This will give them the reason to show confidence in their relationship with you.
- Never Hide Anything: Be frank and open with your lover. Never be scared to tell him/her your views and thoughts. It is observed that things that are kept in mind for long can result in frustration, anger etc. So, do not hold the words and just speak them up in front of your partner whenever you feel like.
- Show Love Constantly: It is seen that often relationships end when the spark of love in them die. To keep this spark alive, it is important to express your love to your partner quite often. No matter whether you are in a mood to do so or not, it is crucial to tell your lover how you feel for him/her. And doing this doesn't require much effort. Say ‘I Love You' often or send Love SMSs to your darling every day. Also, pamper your partner with special gifts to convey your feelings.
- Handle Arguments Wisely: Whenever you enter into an argument with your partner, try to resolve it compassionately. Never ever try to attack your lover with the motive to defeat him/her. Remember, a conversation where anger is involved takes us nowhere. So, it is advisable to approach your partner with compassion. This will open his/her mind and heart and he/she will try to understand from your point of view. This will in turn give you a chance to express yourself clearly. And when you let your lover know what you want in the right way, he/she is more likely to give that to you.
